I have been reflecting on adoption the last few weeks. It seems that so many people talk about adoption but never actually participate in it. There are two groups of people that I have found who talk about adoption. First are the group of people that think it is a noble idea especially in the light of overpopulation, and second are the people that hate abortion so much that they hope people would but their babies up for adoption instead. Now, I also hate the idea of abortion but with adoption as one of the only outlets I do not agree that we can easily rule it out. Here are some statistics that formed this dichotomy.
Adoption remains rare in the United States. Among all women aged 18–44 in 2002, only 1.1% had adopted a child and 1.6% were currently seeking to adopt. [1]
Relinquishment of infants at birth is extremely rare. Only 1% of children born in the United States in 1996–2002 to women 18–44 years of age as of 2002 were relinquished for adoption within their first month of life [1]
The Administration for Children and Families estimated that 748,000 were in the public foster care system in 2008 and only 55, 000 children were adopted in that same year. Children waiting to be adopted were 42% Black, 13% Hispanic, 36% White, and 9% other. [2]
Because the characteristics of children that women and couples seek to adopt, as shown in this report, may not correspond to the characteristics of children in the foster care system, women and couples may seek children from outside the foster care system to adopt. [2]
1. Adoption Experiences of Women and Men and Demand for Children to Adopt

